The Court has a non-interventionist approach which means that unless there is good reason, it would prefer that no order be made and that contact and residence arrangements be agreed between the parties concerned. Of course, in family and relationship disputes this is not always possible and that is why the Court has the power to make an Order where it is evident the parties could not co-operate with each other.
The Court will always wish to see evidence that the parties have tried to resolve the problem between them before resorting to Court intervention. All parties wishing to commence any legal proceedings in family matters must be informed about and attend for mediation unless there is an exception. It is for this reason Children Act proceedings would normally start with an exchange of correspondence between Solicitors trying to resolve the issues before proceedings are issued. The reason for this is that it is naturally in the children's best interests that the parties are not squabbling amongst themselves as Court proceedings only highlight any divisions that already exist.
Mediation provides parents with a dispute the opportunity to discuss their concerns in a controlled environment with a third party listening and helping to structure their discussions. We would always suggest that before any Court proceedings are issued the parties consider a referral to mediation so that they can discuss the issues which affect the children face to face. Whilst this is preferable, many couples, especially where there has been domestic violence, do not wish to attend a mediation appointment and these considerations will be taken into account.